The promise
A quiet decision before the year began: one new adventure every month, no matter how small, as long as it stretched me.
Before ACZ was a thing, it was one promise: do something new, big or small.
In December 2015, I made a promise to myself: in 2016, I would take myself on one new adventure every month.
It started as a way to travel more, but became a way to listen to myself. It brought back the dream I had at 15, when a “work and travel in South America” catalogue made something wake up in me.
In January 2016, Byron Bay became the first stop: my backpack, my first hostel bed, strangers who became friends, and the first time I realised I could choose a life that looked different.
I did not have endless money. I was supporting my family in the Philippines. But I learned to understand my numbers, make brave choices, and trust that abundance was not only financial.
By April 2017, I sold most of what I owned, bought a one-way ticket, and left Australia. I never moved back.
Almost 70 countries later, that first promise is still the thread. It is also the reason ACZ exists: because I know what can happen when a woman reaches the point where staying the same feels heavier than stepping into the unknown.
The highlights reel never tells the whole story, but these are the moments that kept leaving fingerprints.
A quiet decision before the year began: one new adventure every month, no matter how small, as long as it stretched me.
Backpacking Australia, hostels, buses, beaches, solo hikes, new friends, deep grief, big joy, and the first real taste of choosing a life that felt alive.
I sold most of what I owned, packed what was left, and left Australia with no perfect plan. That choice changed the next decade of my life.
Almost 70 countries, 8 businesses, 20+ homes, 6 new languages, and infinite versions of me later, I kept learning that growth rarely arrives through the neat, linear route.
Adios Comfort Zone is the space I wish every woman had when she knows something is calling, but she needs courage, community, and a softer place to begin.
The girl before the promise. Still dreaming, still curious, still not fully aware that life was about to widen.
The first trips around home taught me that you do not always need to leave the country to meet a new version of yourself.
The map was never just decoration. It was a reminder that curiosity had been with me long before the courage caught up.
No perfect itinerary. Just a bag, a little nerve, and a growing trust that I could figure things out as I went.
Surfing, hiking, skydiving, sleeping in cars, getting lost, being found, and learning that discomfort can be a doorway.
Some moments refuse to sit still, which feels about right for this chapter of the story.
Travel has a funny way of introducing you to people who feel like they were always meant to find you.
Behind the romance of leaving were numbers, laptops, effort, and many tiny decisions to keep believing in the bigger thing.
In April 2017, I left with no promise that it would all make sense. Somehow, that was the point.
Years later, the feeling became a place. A home for gathering, hosting, and watching other people have their own brave beginnings.
ACZ is not about forcing yourself to become fearless. It is about creating enough safety, honesty, beauty, and community that courage can actually arrive.
It is for the woman who can feel something shifting. The one who is not looking for a perfect plan, just a real place to begin.
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